(Peace, single payer health care, honor for gays in the military, no torture, civil rights - these are the issues that we worked for. How are we doing? - promoted by Grace Kelly)
I've become a cynic on the entire subject related to President Obama's ovations he made towards the GLBT community while he was running for president.
In fact, I've become skeptical to the entire Democratic Party's views towards the GLBT community. The GLBT has been ferociously loyal to the Democratic Party and the Democratic Party has reacted to that ferocity by turning the GLBT's support into nothing short of a cliche'.
The other day, I had a volunteer call me from the DFL looking for my husband life-partner, and when I identified myself as his partner, she identified herself and wanted me consider a donation.
Mega-mistake. Oh boy...
She got an earful. When I said my partner wasn't available, she said; "Then maybe his wife is around?!"
Oh boy....
I said: "ummm... It's illegal for him to get married. I'm his life-partner. We're a gay couple. Is there something that I can help you with?!"
That's when she told me that she was from the DFL and was looking for some cash.
Oh boy...
The DFL is clearly out of touch with the GLBT.
Short version of that conversation: She agreed with me 100% and she admitted that the DFL and the Democrats have treated the Gay Voter as a free meal ticket. Her tone was pretty queasy, you could hear a couple of tears in her tone. She apologized twice I think, but I lost count after I got to the part where the DFL simply walked away from bills in both the state House and the Senate in hopes that they would just go away.
Just two days ago, Obama's Press Secretary was on MSNBC's Hardball with Chris Matthews and Chris Todd squeezed him with this:
The logic here is that Obama doesn't want to look like he's side-stepping Federal Law by killing DADT by issuing an executive order.
He's using the GLBT Community as a patsy for political cover. To me, it's beginning to look like he's using his campaign promises aimed at the GLBT Community as a political savings account that he'll spend as political capital in case his approval ratings are low in the lame-duck mid-term elections in 2010 as well as his re-election in 2012.
September 2010 and we've got a half-dozen US Senators from the Republican Party to replace?
DOMA gets eliminated!
October 2012 and Obama's polling some low numbers?!
DADT gets blown out of the water!
Last March, Defense Sec admits that they're going to "push [DADT] it down the road" because they're way too busy to discuss life-long careers of GLBT members of the US Military getting toilet-tanked.
"The Pentagon boss said he discussed the issue last week with US President Barack Obama and that there also has been discussion among senior military and legal counsel about possible changes in how they apply the law, which he described as 'very restrictive.' The defense secretary said one possible modification might be consider the circumstances under which a service member is 'outed' in determining whether or not he or she must leave the military. Gates offered as an example 'when we're given information from someone with vengeance in mind or blackmail, somebody who has been jilted. 'If somebody is outed by a third party, does that force us to take action?' he said."
Added Gates: "We're talking about how do we move forward on this, achieve this objective which is changing the policy."
This is an 18-minute video of Obama meeting with "Leaders" of the GLBT community and his un-dying support of equal rights to the gay community. At the 12:30-mark, you'll get to watch Obama demand an appeal towards DADT. It's a flop: Nobody disagrees with that. Except for those who are losing their jobs and getting kicked out of the US Military because they have blond hair are gay.
Within the first minute of the video; Obama has dismissed the LGBT Community by using the African-American Community as a patsy.
We get it, people! It's time you get it too!
Don't call us and expect our wallets to magically flop-open every time you dial our land-line. (God knows, that DFL-volunteer realized it real quick-like!)
Action is always louder than words! We get the message: You don't want us to get married, and you hate the idea that we might share the same hospitalization-rights that you take for granted.
...The Gays are still over here, sitting in the corner waiting for you guys to figure it out!
Is this satisfactory to you? Pony-Up, Progressive DFL-ers!
Can you get married?
Can you join the military?
Can you catch a ride in the Ambulance when your significant other has taken a turn for the worse?
Lucky you! Because we can't!
Doesn't that bother you?! Why not?!
As I said: "I've become a cynic with all of these empty promises of "change" and "hope". In this economy, I find myself with very little change and even less hope. But if you have change you can throw away towards these Democrats...by all means: Be my guest.